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How to Balance Being Cold & Nice With Women—And Always Stay in Control

Before We Begin!
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I ALMOST DID NOT SEND THIS EMAIL…
My brother,
Just woke up to this message inside the Modern-Day Kings:
💬 "ML, how do I balance being cold/emotionless with women vs. being nice to them? In what scenarios should I be more nice than cold and vice versa?"
Side note, but—
I sometimes imagine being ME from the third-person perspective.
The average guy wakes up to some TikTok girl shaking ass on his feed.
I wake up to evolved men asking me advanced questions on mastering women and dominating life like a KING.
And frankly? I love it, bruv.
Of course, some mornings my girl asks me who I’m texting at 8 AM…
She even offers a mouthful just to distract me from helping my Kings.
(Women will do ANYTHING to stop men from helping each other.)
This morning was one of those mornings.
And I made the obvious choice that any Modern-Day King would have made…
Cold vs. Warm. Emotionless vs. Nice.
How Do You Balance It?
Two ways I can answer this:
1️⃣ I can give you the technical answer.
2️⃣ Or… I can teach you the ART behind it.
You know my style.
I’m not some dorky PUA nerd worrying about being "28% more cold" in a text.
Fvck that.
I’ll show you the timeless principles.
The Rule of Thumb:
🔥 When she does a behavior you want to see repeated, be NICE—IN HER LOVE LANGUAGE.
❄️ When she does something you never want to see again, be COLD—IN HER LOVE LANGUAGE.
The 5 Love Languages (Use Them Wisely)
Words of Affirmation → “You’re so incredible, sweetheart.”
Quality Time → Giving her uninterrupted attention.
Physical Touch → S€x and intimacy.
Receiving Gifts → Thoughtful surprises.
Acts of Service → Doing chores or giving massages.
Every woman has one primary love language.
✅ When she’s least annoying & most giggly—that’s her love language.
How to Control Her Emotions Like a KING
💋 If her love language is Physical Touch?
🔥 Reward her with mind-blowing s€x when she’s been behaving well.
❄️ Punish her by withholding intimacy when she starts acting out.
💬 If her love language is Words of Affirmation?
🔥 Reward her with sweet compliments when she’s earned them.
❄️ Punish her with silence when she hasn’t.
It’s really that simple, King.
That Was Your Masterclass on Healthy Relationships.
Now, I’m off for my training.
Looks like my girl’s mouth will have to wait.
She needs to be punished for trying to stop me from emailing you.
I’m curious—what did you/are you training today?
Drop a reply. Let me know.
Keep Dominating,
— Masculine Lord
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